Julia Kirby
Systemic constellations facilitator, human being.
Passionate photographer of water droplets and all things small, felt-maker and lover of a day in the big outdoors.
Looking forward to meeting you!

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Julia Kirby Systemic constellations facilitator, human being.  Passionate photographer of water droplets and all things small, felt-maker and lover of a day in the big outdoors.Looking forward to meeting you. x

Hi Iā€™m Julia.
Born and raised in Germany, my parents separated when I was young.  Does that define me?  No.  They are the bare facts of my background that have contributed to who I am today.  Set me off on my path.  In my mid-twenties I started my mission to dig a bit deeper: 
about who I am and the way I relate to people.

I am fascinated by how our upbringing and previous experiences inform so much of our everyday lives, often way under our radar.
And sometimes it's worth looking a bit further. This is where systemic or family constellations can help so very much.


physiotherapy, children, countries
Originally, I trained as a Physiotherapist.  My first deep encounter with family constellations was in 2004, I was pregnant with my second child.  I had given up my job in Germany and our young family had moved to Hampshire, closer to my husband's parents.  I loved being a (stay-at-home) mum and spent my free time (haha... I know...) reading, discussing and learning about emotional development in children.  But I was also struggling with settling in the UK, 'the grass is always greener on the other side' syndrome... Needing to find a place inside me for my heart to rest, it turned out.

family, or systemic, constellations
I have a strong memory of the first three-day workshop I attended. The beginning of my heart-homing story.  Watching the facilitator, the talented Judith Hemming, and thinking to myself: "Ohh, I want to do something like this one day".
In 2012 I started my two year training in Systemic Family Constellations with the CSC in London.
I am a founding member of a strong international peer group for practice and supervision and regularily attend conferences & courses.